Marilyn Monroe on Embracing the Process of Learning
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“Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
When we take on a complex skill such as learning the classical guitar, we’re bound to learn something that we need to change later.
It happens to us all. We do our best with what we know. But eventually, we know more and recognize new opportunities for improvement. Then we need to change something we may have worked hard to master before.
Some call it “creative destruction”. Some call it “breaking eggs to make an omelet.” Some say that “what gets you out of Egypt won’t get you to the Promised Land”.
Eventually, we have to release what we know or do and start fresh with something different.
This can be hard to swallow. We may resist it. But if we’re honest, we usually know it’s for the best. It’s tempting to mourn “lost time”, or feel it’s a setback.
But it couldn’t be any other way. We had to learn as we did to get to this point. And to move ahead, we may have to accept our limitations and “start over.”
Writer Kourosh Dini expressed this: “The lack of mastery at one stage often only becomes apparent in later stages of work. Accepting this as a natural part of the learning process reduces the sense of being “behind” or “wrong.”
It’s not starting over. We bring all we’ve learned with us. We grow stronger for new perspectives and challenges. Sure, we may not sound as good for a little while, but this pulling back creates the momentum to thrust us forward to the next level and beyond.
We’re pruning. We’re culling. We’re winding the spring.
And to feel good about letting “things fall apart so better things can fall together”, we have to keep the big picture in mind.
It’s not about one piece of music. It’s not about being “right”, or being at a certain level (“I’m a Grade 6 player, so I’m beyond XYZ…”).
We live on a constant growth curve. The more we can stay objective and unattached, the more versatile and flexible we become.
Instead of protecting and guarding what we already know, we can open to new opportunities and ideas. We can take a childlike attitude of openness, and then make educated decisions based on honest review and experimentation.
There’s an age-old proverb that we can “never step in the same stream twice.” This is because the water has changed and so have we. We grow as musicians with any focused practice we do, even if we decide to go another route later.
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